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Filed Under:LGBT / Lesbian
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Archived Since:March 23, 2008

Blog Post Archive

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: I struggle with my feminist beliefs and my bedroom preferneces … help!

Dear Mr. Sexsmith, I am a strong, opinionated, sometimes bossy, lesbian. I have a huge passion for the empowerment, education and advocacy of women. I volunteer as a sexual assault advocate and have been involved as a Planned Parenthood educator. I am very vocal about breaking the cycle of female oppression in our culture. I […]

Protected: Vulnerability is a challenge

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The Longest Running Queer Porn Site, Courtney Trouble’s Indie Porn Revolution, is the April Feature

When did you first discover Courtney Trouble’s queer porn work? Did your BFF email you a link recently, now that her entire empire is under the Indie Porn Revolution umbrella? Were you following links in sidebars back in the day before search engines magically indexed every single page on the web, and you stumbled on […]

You’re Fucking Mine: from the unpublished dirty faggot archives

From one of the early dates with the boy. This is how it began. Two hotel rooms, one park, one bookstore, two restaurants, two—no, three—cocks, eight gloves, who knows how many condoms, who knows how many orgasms, dozens for you, one for me plus dozens of moments of shuddering energetic overwhelm, twice we were barged […]

March Book Roundup: Sex, sex, and more sex

It’s been a review and work month for books, but I’m still eager to keep finding those titles that are breezy-easy reads, that engage me fully, and that are extremely fun and satisfying to finish. Here’s what I’ve been reading this month. I wasn’t sure what to expect when I picked up Partners In Passion: […]

The Beautiful Permission

The grass under our feet (as much as ?your dimples) was responsible for offering? sacrifice, so we could slide smile, court? coy glances, and balance tenacity over?? roots, rocks, sloping curves. We circled? each other, noticing, observing, that way ?we do. Negotiation peeled off slowly ?from my heartbeat heist as a ripe?? cream moon cracked […]

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: How Do I Use My Girlfriend for My Pleasure?

Dear Mr. Sexsmith, My butch girlfriend wants me to boss her around in bed. She wants me to think of it as just using her for my own pleasure and nothing more (just this once anyway!). I’m a bit shy about it though, and not sure how to go about it. Do you have any […]

Counting Down

“Come, now. Do it for me.” He quivers under me: hips splayed open, on his stomach, lower back curled so his ass is in the air. He has been waiting. He has been holding back. “Now, faggot. This is your one chance.” He comes easily, so of course it is something I like to control, […]

This week in photos:

Oh look what came in the mail! (Little late for the release date but still excited to look through it.) @tristantaormino Pen thief Home is where the cat is. Received today! I’m excited to read & review books @shannakatz @madisonyoung Redesign of is live! I designed most of it myself, but rife’s illustrations are […]

Review: Aneros Evi G-Spot Massager

Maybe it’s silly, and it’s probably 99% an issue of marketing and what the majority of the population knows, but every time I see a product that advertises that it’s “for the g-spot,” I think, “Really? Do we really have to have this magic “spot” on bodies that is named after a male doctor who […]

Ready to explore “embodiment”? Three workshop offerings in Seattle & San Francisco in March & April

Two of my greatest queer erotic embodiment / sacred sexuality teachers, Alex Jade and Lizz Randall, are facilitating workshops at the end of March, and I have a collaboration with another mentor and friend of mine, Betty Martin, the first weekend of April. So it’s shaping up to be an incredibly erotic and embodied spring! […]

When I’m getting off

Sometimes I just think of the simplest of things. Your mouth. That look on your face, that look, when you’re giving over even more, just a little deeper, giving in to the sensation, giving in to wherever I’m moving your body, however I’m touching you. Your skin. The way your hands feel in mine. The […]

Sex & Business (isn’t that what it’s always about?) February Book Roundup

Can you believe it’s the last day of February? I know there are literally fewer days in this month, but it always seems to zoom by, more than other months. Maybe it’s the beginnings of spring coming back and my eagerness for more spring. Fall is my favorite, really, but that baby-green color that the […]

To All the Tops Who Are Afraid to Make a Move

One of my biggest challenges as a top—and as a feminist dominant, and as someone who is well versed in and vehemently requires agency and consent in my sexytime play—is making assertions of what I want. This is especially hard if I’m meeting or playing with somebody new. I want to be bold, domineering (in […]

This week in photos:

Some question cards from French toast, fake bacon, yogurt & blackberries; muddled blackberry & satsuma orange with brut; chai with a shot of espresso and foam. We win at breakfast. Sunset run around lake Merritt Rain!! Top ten reasons to bring Mr. Sexsmith to your campus. GET IT Sequoia. Blue tie. Snow in Portland Texture […]

It’s Valentine’s Day, so here’s some Desert Island Toys

It’s Valentine’s Day this week! You didn’t forget it, did you? Well, you’re lucky—if you place an order before noon on Wednesday, they’ll upgrade your shipping to next day air, with some other goodies thrown in too. Whether you’re single, or have one or two or more hotties you want to share some sexytimes with […]

February Feature: Crash Pad Series & strap-on queer porn scenes you gotta see

Hello! This is your monthly affiliate feature, where I share with you some of the reasons you should indulge in a particular product or service. This month, February 2014, it’s going to be Pink & White, fine makers of such queer porn as the Crash Pad Series, Pink & White Productions, Pink Label (streaming on […]

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