Blog Profile / Sexis
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| Filed Under: | Relationships / Sexuality | |
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| Archived Since: | July 27, 2010 | |
Blog Post Archive
Seeking Help as a Survivor of Sexual Violence by Bonita Soleil
Rape, abuse, and sexual assault are crimes that overwhelmingly target women, so I will be speaking primarily about women who have survived these things, and from my own experiences as a woman who has been assaulted. Through this series...Show More Summary
Confessions of a Friend-Zoner by Bonita Soleil
You know how it goes. Man meets woman, man befriends woman, man expects that friendship to blossom into something sexual, and when it doesn't, man complains that he's been friend-zoned. This scenario can play out between any two people,...Show More Summary
The Monosexual’s Guide to Dating Someone Flexible by novanilla
There are many of us who identify as queer, bisexual, pansexual, or other identities that are flexible in the sex and gender of our partners. This is often difficult to understand for people who are not flexible, whether they are gay or straight. Show More Summary
Thinking about Taboos by TheDP
Taboos are powerful things. Anything that has power over our minds and imaginations can either imprison us or be used to make us happier. Maybe it's time to think about harnessing your taboos and using them to keep a long term relationship healthy and exciting. read article
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Relationships.In General,
Advice.Dating & Relationships
Positive Versus Prohibitive: Why Sex Positive Spaces are Beginning to Experience Backlash by Bonita Soleil
The notion of "Sex Positivity" is one that we are all familiar with: it encourages an accepting, celebratory attitude toward sex and sexuality. There are times, however, when sex positive spaces can turn sour for their participants.Show More Summary
BDSM DIY: Creating Dungeon Furniture by Katelyn
In this third segment of my BDSM Do it Yourself column, I will discuss how I have made several pieces of dungeon furniture in the past and how you could, easily, learn to craft these transportable pieces yourself. The finished pieces...Show More Summary
How Phone Sex Can Improve Your LDR by Whisper21
Being of the internet generation, I’ve had my share of online, and long distance, relationships. When my husband was in Germany for a few weeks, Skype sex was a wonderful treat that we got to have every couple of days, and it kept us going until we were able to see each other again. Show More Summary
BDSM Punishments by zj22
In my previous article, How to Submit, I mentioned that it is important to be able to take punishments as a submissive. After my article was posted, it received a comment which left me stunned. Then it hit me. I had never explained the various types of punishments, and it was assumed that all BDSM punishments were purely physical. Show More Summary
Medicalizing Queer Identities by Katelyn
How does the medicalized discourse surrounding queer identities shape the way that queer people are represented? Is this better or worse for the individual experience? Medicalizing a cultural notion, such a sexual identity, a construct that exists in only certain socio-political arenas, works to harm individuals more than empower them. Show More Summary
Separate "feeling good" from "looking good!" by Bonita Soleil
I used to dread summer, and being told to uncover myself when all I wanted to do was cover up. After struggling with body image issues for years, I realized that perhaps the key to keeping your body confidence high is to realize that your body isn't the only part of you that matters. Show More Summary
Anal Sex: How To Get Started by sugarcaine
Okay, so let’s say you and your husband are into anal play, and you want to take it a step further. You are both comfortable with the idea of anal sex, but you feel like you need some pointers to help you get started. read article
Tags:
Sexual Health.Sex Ed,
Relationships.In General,
Society.Sexuality
BDSM Relationships and Mental Health by requiem dreams
When it comes to mixing BDSM dynamics with mental health and adverse reactions to medicines, it can be enough to frustrate most. read article
Tags:
Relationships.Power Exchange
Beginning in Bondage by TheDP
Restraining your partner can be fun, bonding and loving, and it can be as much or as little drama, dogma and homework as you like. There are sources on the internet that make it seem impossibly complicated, incredibly specific and terribly difficult. Show More Summary
Turn Your Thinking Off: Running a Thought-mile During Sexual Activities by Ayumi
What am I going to cook for dinner? Did I leave the stove on? Why did Harold say that thing about my wife? Will they ever cum?
We all know that during sexual play time, there are those days (far many than few) where we cannot turn our minds to completing the fun at hand, to enjoy our sexual experiences fully. Show More Summary
Confessions of a Reluctant Rope Top: Part 3 by TheDP
Contrary to what you might think because of media portrayals, bondage can be an incredible tool for intimacy in an otherwise perfectly normal relationship. You don't have to collar your spouse, wear crazy leather gear or inflict bruises to really reap the benefits of a little power exchange. read article
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Relationships.Power Exchange,
Relationships.In General
Confessions of a Reluctant Rope Top: Part 2 by TheDP
Just thinking about new things (or even old things in new ways) can completely rewire how you think about sex. Seriously, just give it a go. read article
Tags:
Relationships.In General,
Relationships.Power Exchange,
Society.Fashion & Beauty
What appealing DADT didn't do by freshbananas
What we forgot when President Obama repealed Don't Ask Don't Tell. read article
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Society.Politics,
Relationships.LGBTQ,
Society.The Law
A Sexless Adventure by Fantasy315
I think we all can agree that having a long term relationship is a great thing. As the relationship continues on, you gain a close friendship and a great sex partner, possibly for life. Spending a long time with someone can create challenges in the bedroom. Show More Summary
Stimulating the Prostate to Orgasm (III): Dildos and Thrusting by dooboige
This series of articles discusses how to stimulate the prostate so as to achieve prostate orgasms. In this, the final article in the series, I talk about the use of dildos and other "thrusting" toys. read article
Tags:
Sexual Health.Sex Ed,
Sexual Health.Men's Health
Are Depression and Bipolar Disorder Ruining your Sex Life? by Whisper21
Depression and Bipolar disorder are not the same, but both can do serious damage to your love life. As a sufferer from depression, I intend to help explain the differences between these two common disorders, explain what they are and how they work, how they can be messing up your bedroom routine, and how to get back on top. Show More Summary