I'm a 34-year-old mostly straight woman in the Southwest US. My amazing boyfriend is 30 and straight. We've been together about 2.5 years, and we love and respect each other dearly and deeply. Here's the issue: while we both prefer monogamy,...Show More Summary
She’s claimed Obama is the secret Muslim love child of Malcolm X and compared Muslims to savages. Meet the blogger behind the controversial Texas event that came under attack Sunday.
In his many years of doling out frank and sex-positive relationship advice, there’s one idea that Dan Savage has repeatedly revisited in the hopes of making his fans’ love lives better: human monogamy just isn’t all that natural. So many...
I'm a 34-year-old erotic massage therapist/hand job artist. It's interesting, gratifying, and I always have a good story to share with friends in the know. I love it. About six months ago I met a 78-year-old man in need of my services after grieving the loss of his wife. Show More Summary
Joe Newton My partner is 31 years older than I am. I know the math: He'll be 60 when I'm 29. But that isn't the problem. The issue is he's been a lifelong bachelor and never been monogamous. He's fucked hundreds of women and is close friends with a lot of his former fuck buddies. Show More Summary
You wrote in one of your columns awhile back: "It's amazing how well some people get along with their exes after they break up or divorce. People really seem to relax and enjoy each other once they let go of their expectations, once they're no longer trying to control each other, and once both are free to sleep with whoever they want. Show More Summary
Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta is back in full swing, which means the savage levels of ignorance are only elevating, exponentially…Continue.
You’ve given me good advice in the past and it has led me to casting aside previous baggage and settling down with a man whom I valued for being trusty, responsible and hard-working. The one downside: He's always been straight as an arrow, uninterested in kink or any non-traditional relationship options. Show More Summary
Joe Newton I'm an American woman living abroad and have started a relationship with a wonderful man from a Middle Eastern country. We are having a great time exploring what is a foreign country for both of us. The looming issue is sex, of course. Show More Summary
I've been reading your column for years (19 years?), and I love it. "Savage Love" has been a major part of my coming to terms with my sexuality after a very religious upbringing. And I hate to complain about something that probably seems...Show More Summary
The Daily ShowDaily Show Full Episodes, More Daily Show Videos, Comedy Central Full Episodes My readers—a "Savage Love" reader who suggested a contest to redefine "santorum" way back in 2003, another reader came up with the "frothy...Show More Summary
First, I must apologize. I ramble when I'm nervous and I'm quite nervous as I'm a big fan of yours and my girlfriend—the lady I'm writing about—is too, but maybe her seeing this will help. So, I've had a pretty weird sex life. I'm aShow More Summary
The Bush family loves to see themselves as adults. And they are. Privileged, self-absorbed, vile, treacherous, toadying, savage adults. The Bushes always punch down. No clan in the history of the Republic is less encumbered by principal, less responsive to economic misery, or less troubled with inflicting death. Show More Summary
I am a 32 year-old straight woman, in a new relationship with a 32 year-old man. The (overly) detailed backstory: We met online one month ago. He travels for work, and when we began talking he was at a job two hours away from me. WeShow More Summary
I'm loving Adam Savage's One Day Builds show for Tested, where he and a special guest build models and shoots the breeze. Read the rest
JOE NEWTON I consider myself a straight guy—but for the last four years, I've been having an affair with "Connie," a trans girl I met online. It was just casual at first, but over time we developed a deeper personal relationship but kept it hidden. Show More Summary
I'm home and listening to opera. While listening I was contemplating some issues my wife and I discussed recently. We are both bi and have been together 11 years. What came up was penis size and essentially tight clothing. When I wear tight jeans my cock is obviously showing, even when completely soft. Show More Summary
I'm wondering if this is the right place to ask a question for the show or if I MUST call? Either way, I'm just wondering: I identify as a queer female, having dated men and women almost in equal measure. Lately I'm finding that my fantasies...Show More Summary
[Savage Minds is pleased to run this essay by guest author Jessica Falcone as part of our Writer’s Workshop Series. Jessica is Associate Professor of Anthropology at Kansas State University. She is the author of numerous articles onShow More Summary
Joe Newton I'm a straight male kinkster who used to do live performances as a rope bondage top, but I recently jumped out of the kink community. I just think I'll have better luck finding a long-term relationship with a girl from the vanilla world. Show More Summary